A gentle lady emailed Atlantia's listserv, the Merry Rose, recently, asking if anyone had a household initiation ceremony she might use as a basis for making one of her own. Unable to resist sticking it in where ceremony and pomp are concerned, I wrote a reply, despite not belonging to a household nor having inducted anyone into it. I will assume a ceremonial leader, the initate(s), and attendees.
I. Welcome and Invocation
The leader welcomes the initiate(s) and attendees and states the purpose of the gathering.
II. The Initiate Is Informed
The initiate(s) are called forward. The leader (or an assistant) describes the ethos and goals of the household and the duties, responsibilities and privileges of its members. A brief history of the household may be included.
III. A Pact Is Made
The leader asks the initiates if they understand their responsibilities, and the initiates reply with some version of "I do." The leader asks if the initiates if they wish to join the household, and again they reply something like "I do." Depending on the structure of the household, the attending members may be asked if they agree to accept the initiates and guard and train them, or the household's leader (may or may not be the ceremonial leader) may make the decision unilaterally.
IV. Tokens Are Given and Received
Some items symbolic of the household or of the pact are given to the initiates, and their symbolism explained to the attendees.
V. New Members Are Welcomed
The leader presents the initiates to the attendees as new members of the household. There is cheering, hugging, ceremonial buffeting, whatever works for you. If possible, a shared meal or refreshment should be offered.
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